Ask the Pastor: What Does Scripture Say about Gossips? What Was the Forbidden Fruit? by the Rev. Walter Snyder Religion Columnist Q: What does the Bible say about gossips, especially when they have no idea about the truth? A: The Bible equates gossips with slanderers. Proverbs 11:12--13 says, "He who belittles his neighbor lacks sense, but a man of understanding remains silent. He who goes about as a talebearer reveals secrets, but he who is trustworthy in spirit keeps a thing hidden." In the Small Catechism, Martin Luther explains the Commandment, "You shall not bear false testimony against your neighbor," by going beyond perjury and even lying: "We should fear and love God so that we do not tell lies about our neighbor, betray him, slander him, or hurt his reputation, but defend him, speak well of him, and explain everything in the kindest way." This recognizes the fact that most gossips have a very good idea about the truth and either ignore it or use it as a weapon. Thus, even the truth should not be spoken unless the benefits far outweigh the pain it might cause. Bringing up an old sin of another just to hurt that person is every bit as bad as making up lies about that person, unless the truth will somehow bring great benefit to that person and to others. People sometimes assume a self-righteous mind-set that thinks it is for another's benefit that painful truths must be told. Yet Luther says in the Large Catechism, "If we gossip about another in all corners, and stir the filth, no one will be reformed, and afterwards when we are to stand up and bear witness, we deny having said so. Therefore it would serve such tongues right if their itch for slander were severely punished, as a warning to others. If you were acting for your neighbor's reformation or from love of the truth, you would not sneak about secretly nor shun the day and the light." True or false, gossip is harmful and to be always avoided. Our parents were, according to Scripture, right better than 99 times out of 100 when they told us, "If you can't say something good about someone, then don't say anything at all." If this were not so, then the Epistle of James would be a lot shorter: The whole third chapter and much from other chapters wouldn't have been written. None of us is perfect, and James notes that if our speech were perfect, then we would be: "For we all make many mistakes, and if any one makes no mistakes in what he says he is a perfect man, able to bridle the whole body also. If we put bits into the mouths of horses that they may obey us, we guide their whole bodies. Look at the ships also; though they are so great and are driven by strong winds, they are guided by a very small rudder wherever the will of the pilot directs. So the tongue is a little member and boasts of great things. How great a forest is set ablaze by a small fire! "And the tongue is a fire. The tongue is an unrighteous world among our members, staining the whole body, setting on fire the cycle of nature, and set on fire by hell. For every kind of beast and bird, of reptile and sea creature, can be tamed and has been tamed by humankind, but no human being can tame the tongue---a restless evil, full of deadly poison. With it we bless the Lord and Father, and with it we curse men, who are made in the likeness of God. From the same mouth come blessing and cursing. My brethren, this ought not to be so. (James 3:2--10)" Q: From where came the idea that Adam and Eve ate an apple? Is this a biblical fact or a myth established through time by man? A: We have no idea what the fruit was. Much of the Middle East, including many Hebrew scholars in Old and New Testament times, spoke of it as a pomegranate. Other cultures often mention a fruit with which they are most familiar, such as the orange, the plum, or another. It may be that this was a one-of-a-kind tree and that its existence on earth has long ceased. It could also have been something that perished in the great Flood. What it was is ultimately not important; what matters is how God affixed his Word to it and how our first parents reacted to that Word. To Ask the Pastor, please write Ask the Pastor, PO Box 12, Emma, MO, 65327 or send email to askthepastor@aol.com. I look forward to hearing from you. Walter Snyder is the pastor of Holy Cross Lutheran Church, Emma, Missouri and coauthor of the book "What Do Lutherans Believe."